somehow this kind of matter...it depends on what u have done and to the certain extent la...not too over. she can try her best to achieve wat she wants but not by forcing... it's still okay lah...coz currently,unlike last time,she thinks more rationally nowadays:)
"早已把我牵到了这毫无归属感的零度空间",this sound so sad,sob..dan1 lian4's very pity:( yea,pj's rite,she's been better lately..but on the other hand,i'm not so sure whether her current state is a positive kind of let-go state or escaping...haiz,gan3 qing2..ren2 yu3 ren2 xiang1 chu3,ben3 lai2 jiu4 shi4 zhong3 zhi1 shi4!forcing's x a gd way...very cham only la i noe...hai~~
Pui Jing, i wonder whether when she read my blog, did she knew that the girl in the blog is her? Is she really that rational nowadays? She doesn't look sad anymore yenoe. she's smiling and always jokingly claim that i'm the one she's interested with. i wonder what happened? haha. You're her best friend, you should know right?
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somehow this kind of matter...it depends on what u have done and to the certain extent la...not too over.
she can try her best to achieve wat she wants but not by forcing...
it's still okay lah...coz currently,unlike last time,she thinks more rationally nowadays:)
"早已把我牵到了这毫无归属感的零度空间",this sound so sad,sob..dan1 lian4's very pity:( yea,pj's rite,she's been better lately..but on the other hand,i'm not so sure whether her current state is a positive kind of let-go state or escaping...haiz,gan3 qing2..ren2 yu3 ren2 xiang1 chu3,ben3 lai2 jiu4 shi4 zhong3 zhi1 shi4!forcing's x a gd way...very cham only la i noe...hai~~
感情好像从来不在于对错,因为它并不在乎。
是前进, 是后退; 对错从不是阻隔的的栏,那条防线其实已经在心里划下。
Pui Jing, i wonder whether when she read my blog, did she knew that the girl in the blog is her?
Is she really that rational nowadays?
She doesn't look sad anymore yenoe.
she's smiling and always jokingly claim that i'm the one she's interested with.
i wonder what happened?
haha.
You're her best friend, you should know right?
SUN SUN,
我赞同你说的[人与人相处,本来就是种智慧]。
要与一个若有冲突发生时,可以直接撕破脸不认人的普通朋友维系感情,已经是难事。更何况是自己心爱的人。因为你知道,无论对方对你造成多大的伤害都好,为了要护持那段亲密关系,你会更加需要更多的力量来撑。
难道你也有单恋的经验?
SUN SUN,
我赞同你说的[人与人相处,本来就是种智慧]。
要与一个若有冲突发生时,可以直接撕破脸不认人的普通朋友维系感情,已经是难事。更何况是自己心爱的人。因为你知道,无论对方对你造成多大的伤害都好,为了要护持那段亲密关系,你会更加需要更多的力量来撑。
难道你也有单恋的经验?
Ying Ying,
好一句[对错从不是阻隔的的栏,那条防线其实已经在心里划下。]
虽然说,我们真正在乎的,并不是对与错。
但我想,当感情出现裂痕的时候,为何蹦出来的话语总是离不开,[都是你的错!],[我这样做有错吗?] 或甚至是[是我的错的话,我可以改的...]呢?
可惜。
原来我们的心受到不公平的对待时,心里期许的,仍旧是一个公正的审判。恨不得快些合理化,错的是她,委屈的才是我。
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